> IMO, you're taking advantage of your friend. If she really doesn't
> feel like she can do it, she may be afraid to say so for fear of
> letting you down. If she can't handle it, and tries anyway, you'll
> all be disappointed, or worse- angry.
Oh, she thinks she can do it -- she's already planning on doing someone
else's wedding, and knowing the person in question, I can't realistically
see her doubting her abilities.. I suspect, to be honest, she'd be offended
if we _didn't_ ask her -- but I don't want to end up with things not working
out because she can't manage it but thinks she can; and at the same time I
want to find out some way to phrase this without sounding rude.
I guess what I'm trying to get is some sort of questions to ask to make
sure she does know what she's doing, but without sounding as if I'm being
overly negative about her ability.
-- dan
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