I guess I can see where your coming from. I'm sure there are quite a few
nutball buyers out there too. I guess we all have to come up with our own
ways of dealing with the reality than, eventually, we'll all end up having
some problems with these kind of people.
Darin
----- Original Message -----
From: "C.H.Ling" <chling@xxxxxxxxxxxxx>
To: <olympus@xxxxxxxxxx>
Cc: <alienspecimen@xxxxxxxxx>
Sent: Wednesday, April 27, 2005 8:44 AM
Subject: [OM] Re: [OT] Help dealing with another scumbag, please
>
> James, I absolutely agree with you, being a seller of over 500 positive
> and
> zero neutral/negative I seldom leave feedback before the buyer left
> feedback
> to me or email me he has received the goods and happy about it except for
> small items. If the buyer has not received the good and accepted it the
> transaction has not finish. Only after transaction is finished I will
> leave
> feedback. This is to protect myself if some crazy guys leave negative
> without trying to resolve the problem by email first, fortunately I have
> never seen one.
>
> To Boris, AFAIK once feedback is left, nothing can be done to change it
> but
> you can put a reply under your feedback to explain it.
>
> C.H.Ling
>
> ----- Original Message -----
> From: "James N. McBride" <jnmcbr@xxxxxxx>
>
>
>>
>> As a seller there is a reason to wait on providing feedback. Just because
>> you got paid doesn't mean the transaction is successful. Both sides need
>> to
>> be satisfied. I frequently wait until I get feedback from the buyer. If I
>> don't hear something several days after the package should have been
>> delivered I go ahead and offer the positive feedback. That frequently
>> results in feedback from the buyer. That are still a lot of people that
>> do
>> not use the feedback system. I've had five people renege on purchase
>> agreements lately. That is really maddening. /jmac
>>
>> -----Original Message-----
>> From: olympus-owner@xxxxxxxxxx [mailto:olympus-owner@xxxxxxxxxx]On
>> Behalf Of Darin Rhein
>> Sent: Wednesday, April 27, 2005 4:19 AM
>> To: olympus@xxxxxxxxxx
>> Subject: [OM] Re: [OT] Help dealing with another scumbag, please
>>
>>
>>
>> Hi Boris,
>>
>> As for what to do about the problem at this point I don't know what to
>> tell
>> ya, but I can tell you how I handle leaving feedback on ebay.
>>
>> As a buyer on ebay I almost never leave feedback before the seller has
>> left
>> me a positive. I see no reason for a seller to withhold feedback once
>> they
>> have received payment, the buyer has held up their end of the bargain.
>> The
>> only reason I can see for a seller to wait is for the purpose of
>> retaliation. If for whatever reason I were planning to leave a negative,(
>> fortunately I've only had to do this once) or even a neutral, I would
>> absolutely wait for the seller to leave feedback first. If you really
>> feel
>> you most leave the feedback, and the seller has not given you a feedback
>> yet, then I would consider making it a neutral, unless you can live with
>> the
>> negative retaliation your likely to receive.
>>
>> Just my opinions, hope your able to get the matter resolved
>> satisfactorily.
>>
>> Best of luck, Darin
>>
>
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