I quite agree. Somehow, an unsolicited response to a pretty picture of a
nice looking young girl of "But I bet my daughter can beat up your
daughter." seems inappropriate in context of MA tradition. No one who
has complimented you on your excellent pictures and the attractive
daughters in them, has brought up questions of whose children could
'beat up' your or others' children. What does it mean to make such a
violent offer (even in jest) on behalf of a daughter who is learning
'not to fight' and the 'difference between violence and action'. The
spiritual energies of the parent affect the learning of the child
whether the child is told of the thoughts, feelings and actions of the
parent or not. I see the truth of that, mostly to my joy, but sometimes
to my chagrin, in my children and grandchildren.
I only observe and hold up a mirror. If you see something there that you
use to your advantage, all is well. If not, all is well. As the I Ching
says "There is no blame." If I offend, I humbly appologize. I readily
agree that you could beat me up, even if I were to resist.
Perhaps we may discuss whether there is a difference between action and
inaction some time. It is a subtle and rewarding question.
May the blessings of the most beautiful Jewel in the Lotus grace you,
and your family
Moose
Richard F. Man wrote:
You learn Martial Arts not to learn how to fight, but learn how not to
fight. The parents can of course, brag. That's different.
There's much more to MA than "violence." Also there's a difference
between violence and action.
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